Monday, 25 June 2012

Your Lifeline


So initially, the main (if not only) reasons I was adamant in wanting to see The African Cypher were:
1. because it was a South African documentary and
2. because I knew some of the people who were in it!
It was definitely more than that…
It was inspiring and something that got me thinking once again.
To many of us, we go through this world having shit pretty easy. That is: given a life where your decisions are often supported by your loved ones, given more than one (or more) opportunities to make a success of something. But then there are even more of us who find the one thing in their lives which becomes their difference between life and death… literally!

Dance.
With me having always taking a liking to dance personally, I’ve always known what impact it had on the lives of people who chose to do it as a profession. And yes, I have heard even more stories, watched many programmes and listened to many songs with people describing how dance kept them off the streets. How it made the difference between their lives being a success and them becoming a gang-member, drug-user, etc.
We’ve heard it all before and even though the “story from the ghetto” is pretty much a dime a dozen, I STILL have a heavy heart every time I hear one of this stories.
For someone, coming from nothing, to pretty much take something as simple as dance (an occupation that requires nothing other than yourself) and turn it into something they live and breathe. Their lifeline if you will. Their difference between success and failure, family and loneliness, taking (crime) and giving (teaching others). I’ve also heard many people say “without it I’d be dead or in jail.”
It’s almost unfathomable, the determination these “dancers” have to fight the odds of swimming upstream when the world is telling you to turn around because you wasting your time. Almost incredible trying to understand that something as simple as dance could be the difference between living and dying.
Even though I have grown up on the Cape Flats, I honestly cannot say that I have struggled. Sometimes I wish I did. I wasn’t rich but I always had what I needed and most of the times had what I wanted. And even though I consider myself successful in my own right, I feel that my determination and courage I needed to go for the things in life was at a lower level than those who struggled! Almost arrogant in saying, I always knew I had a back up. But what if I didn’t? What if I struggled? what if I never had the back up?
I can go on and on about this topic, but il end it here and ask you this…

What’s your thing? What is/was your one thing in your life that meant the difference between life and death for you? Superiority and Mediocrity? Something you live and breathe? Your lifeline…
And would you approach things differently knowing you only had one chance? Would you be more passionate and appreciate in your approach to your own life?

Thursday, 14 June 2012

The Stuttafords Limited Edition GlossyBox



I can repeat myself month after month after month claiming how this months box is The Most Anticipated box yet, well this one is. Glossybox teamed up with Stutterfords for a limited edition luxury box filled with goodies. Whoop! Whoop!

With the on going raving of those who've already received their boxes and me avoiding Glossybox Facebook and Twitter page, I had very high expectations for this limited edition box. So honestly, opening my box was a bit of a let down. However once trying out the products I discovered some new favorites.



Orlane Vivifying Cleansing Care - Firstly, the only thing I don't like about this product is the scent, way too strong. Everything else I LOVE! It's creamy milky like consistency smooths onto my skin removing all traces of my makeup leaving my skin super ultra smooth. Definitely something I'd purchase when I'm rich and famous one day.


Yves Saint Laurent Lipstick - Rouge Pur Couture Lipstick in Rose Stiletto - Before I always thought of this color as a mommy color but now I ♥ it. With my dried-fruit lips I always apply Elizabeth 8 hour cream before applying any lipstick. This shade is perfect for winter. I tweeted a pic last week rocking my YSL lipstick.


Molton Brown Paradisiac Pink Pepperpod - Bath or Shower - Again I was not thrilled with this scent until I gave it a try. It's Spiced aromatic oils of African ginger, patchouli and Reunion Island pink pepper really does help to uplift your spirits. I think the scent is perfect for long hot baths in the winter and best of all the scent last for hours on your skin. ♥


Dolce & Gabbana - The One - A very sophisticated lady-like scent, a mix of Sultry and Sexy. Nice but not something I'd kill for.
Dolce & Gabbana - The One Sport for Men - OMGEE!!! This is how I would like my man to smell. Everything about this scent gets my blood rushing to all the right places. I get all light headed and just wanna melt into his arms. I've hugged many a man too long just to breathe in a good scent. Freak, I know but this is gets a 10/10 from me.


Escada Especially Eau de Parfum - ♥ ♥ ♥ Now this is a me kinda scent. Fresh, light, floral scent yet elegant. My next perfume treat has to be this. HINT! It's my birthday coming up soon...

July box orders are now open ♥

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