Ourselves

So once again another one of the many things women stress about are ourselves!
We constantly speaking these negative thoughts in our heads… she is so pretty, she is gorgeous! Why cant I look like that? She is so skinny? She has such nice hair! And on and on and on.
But seriously now, if you look at the women you have been comparing yourself to, you’ll see that it is all cosmetic/material and the positivity they exude when they walking through that shopping mall. And in our heads we all have the same excuses aswell…. “I don’t have the money to look like that, I don’t have the time, I actually have a job, kids to look after, shit to do, and whatever, whatever”
If you ever had a gym contract and actually went to gym… have you ever wondered why most of the people in gym are men??? When women are the ones complaining about how fat they are? And also, why the little women that are in gym are the well toned “skinny” ones? C’mon now??? And yes, I am one of the culprits, but we are really the only ones to blame when it comes to ourselves and the image we portray to other people. Are you ladies kidding me! If you are unhappy and think you fat, then change it.
Secondly, there has never been a single woman that Ive met who hasn’t said something bad about her hairstyle! But once again, who are the ones In the salon… the women with the perfect hair that we stare at all the time! So what if you cant afford a salon treatment once a week, I bet that everyone of you out there owns a hairdryer, flat iron or something like that. I should’ve invented the hairdryer, I would’ve been freaking rich by now!!! So ladies… there are home kits of every kind these days. Since everything you do is about trial and error, if you don’t like something, change it! buy some hair dye, (if you really broke and trust your friend) ask her to give you a hair cut, she’ll be too willing, then finish it off with that hair dryer of yours!
All women think that we need money to look good or we need that man to pay for our “make-overs”! I believe in doing shit on your own. Its rewarding at the end of the day and wont be kept against you in the event of a break-up!
We believe that we need to have loads of money to buy all those clothing to look so good. You don’t need much if you have access to the internet (websites which tell you which clothing suits which body types) and Mr. Price in your neighbourhood! We believe that without a stylist, a personal trainer and a chef, we can never look like that. But what are the chances that majority of us will be able to afford those luxuries given the “normal” life you live.
We are all so afraid of change in our lives but we really have nothing to lose if you think about how bad you are feeling about yourself as it is. So why not try it! see how that works for you! As a female, you weren’t born “normal”. You were never designed to fit in with the rest of us out there. You were designed to leave your mark on other people. To be remembered as one females who inspired to be and do everything she could. Irrespective of your circumstances, background, how much money you have and, and, and!!

Short and sweet... LOL
Let's all use this advice.